When you have finally accepted the breakup and stopped trying to get your ex boyfriend back. When you have put some space between the two of you and allowed your ex to think about the mistake he might have made.This is when he might begin to miss you. Your emotions will be under control and you will wonder if he still is as much in love with you as you are with him.
When your ex boyfriend has had the time to experience his life without you, he may be wondering if you still love him and if he has a chance of getting you back. If you remain patient, he should begin to show signs that will be as easy to see as the footprint of a giant in sand. However, I must warn you that the signs must be seen by your eyes and not your heart.
When you are still in love with your guy, it is easy to allow your anxiety to get the better of you and see things that are not there. This can lead to some embarrassment and more heart break. Another reason to be careful and take things slow is, your ex boyfriend is only beginning to think he might have made a n mistake by breaking up with you. If you move too soon he could back away again.
But, in spite of all of this, some signs will be so obvious that you cannot make a mistake. For example, if you suddenly start getting text messages asking how you are doing. If the text is followed up by a phone call, you can be sure that he is having positive thoughts about you. You can bet that if he no longer cared for you, he would be spending this time trying to get some other woman's attention.
Don't think the same thing is true if you send the first text or make the first phone call. Even if your ex boyfriend answers your text or takes your phone call, you cannot think it shows he still is in love with you. However, if you have been in contact with your ex, you should stop immediately. If he does not contact you, it will show you he was only taking your calls out of pity. But, if he does continue the contact, it is a positive sign.
An even better sign is when you constantly are running into him and he stops to chat. He isn't there by accident every time, so it shows he is planning to bump into you. He might miss you so much that he longs for just a glimpse of you. It is even better when he asks you if you have time to have coffee with him. This will give you a chance to read his body language.
When a man is interested in a woman, he will lean forward when talking to her. This is an indication that he wants to be as close to her as possible. You might also catch him staring at you, like he is watching something that has his complete attention. This is when he could become so overwhelmed that he will take you hand, look into you eyes and say, “I love you.”