Your boyfriend dumped you and you ache to feel his arms around you again. But, to get your ex back, you have to make him feel the same pain you are feeling. You have to make him sorry he dumped you and make him ache for you. We are not talking about using dirty tricks or getting revenge. He has to want you back because he misses you and feels he can't live without you.
Though it might not seem possible to you now, there are things you can do that will make him desperate to have you back in his arms and tell you how much he is in love with you. This is not a wish or some fantasy, you can really make it happen. However, you must be strong and have patience and determination. You might be thinking this is easy to say, but you don't know my ex boyfriend. He is as stubborn as a mule
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You are right, I don't know your ex boyfriend personally, but I do know men and the way they think.I also know male psychology and how to push the right hot buttons to make him react the way you want him to act. Now, this next statement could make you think I'm crazy because to get your ex back, you will have to dump him. You read that right, you have to dump the guy who dumped you!
When your ex boyfriend dumped you, he was sure that you were still in love with him. He expected you to beg him on your knees and lose every shred of your pride and dignity. But, you are going to show him how wrong he is. To make him see his mistake, you have to accept the breakup and act like you are glad to be rid of him. You are going to use male psychology to make him ache for you.
Instead of letting him see you at your worse, you are going to show yourself at your best. Go to a good salon and get a complete makeover. New hair style, manicure, pedicure and a tan. Then go shopping and get a new wardrobe. The next time he sees you his eyes will practically pop out of their sockets. When you are as hot looking as possible, get with your friends and let him see you.
You know his usual hang outs, so it shouldn't be hard to run into your ex and make it look accidental. When he sees you, he will be stunned, but as soon as he recovers he will want to talk to you. When he comes over give him a big smile and treat him like an old friend. Then just before you leave tell him you think the breakup was a great idea and you hope he is having as good a time as you are.
This will make him feel dumped and rejected and that is all it will take to turn everything around. He will begin to miss you and start aching to see you again. But, when he tries to contact you, ignore him. Thinking that you don't want him anymore will make him desperate to get you back and the boyfriend who dumped you will be chasing you again.