Are you in absolute state of depression because your partner just broke up with you? Well, while ending the relationship is the last thing to do on your mind, it can be the first and foremost thought in your partner's mind. But whatever the cause of the break up, regardless if it's your fault or not, trying to win your ex back can be the hardest, most challenging thing to do, especially for men. But women come in no exception in winning back their man. So here are some tips on how to win your ex back.
Saying “sorry” sincerely
The first and foremost thing to do in trying to win your ex back is to make the sincerest apologies. Both men and women can distinguish which apologies are sincere and which ones are not. While some may be good at faking it, the sincerest way of saying sorry can be the most heartwarming thing to do after all the tortuous arguments, disagreements and conflicts. This is also best way to keep things calm and cool while trying to initiate a conversation.
Start a journey to the heart
Talking things out is next step towards winning your ex back. You can start the conversation by asking how things had been after you broke up and how he or she is doing at the moment. One by one, discuss the issues of concern and try to make every issue as constructive as possible, to prevent heating up the talk. As this type of conversation transcends, the chances of positively working things out and winning your ex back are high.
Allow each other to be apart and take in some air
After a heavy heart to heart talk with your ex, give him or her some time off. Give yourself some time to think things over with as well. Don't rush things, especially when it comes with the matters of heart.
Be sure you're holistically stable
After a break, many tend to lose control of themselves that they never careless of how they have been thinking and dealing with other people. This should not be the case. Break-ups should serve as a lesson that will inspire you to change and live a better and more fruitful life. Thus, being healthy, mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally and socially can be the next best driving force to get your ex back.
So keep your cool and just be true to yourself. Just remember these simple tips on how to get your ex back and you're good to go.