There is no doubt about how desperate you are to get your ex boyfriend back after a breakup. That is why you chase him and accept his rejection. You will do anything to get your ex back in your arms and that includes losing your pride and self respect. What is wrong with this picture? In one word – everything! You will never get your ex back as long as he can keep you chasing him.
To get your ex boyfriend back, you have to make him so desperate that he will chase you. But, if he broke up with you why would he become so desperate to have you back that he would chase you? Because you are going to do certain things that will make him crazy with desire for you. I am going to show you how to use male psychology to get inside his head and make him do whatever you want him to do.
The truth is – your ex boyfriend is probably in love with you, but when men get upset about something, they can be very stubborn. He may be longing to have you back in his arms, but once he broke up with you, his ego and pride will not let him admit his mistake. The only thing that will make him forget his pride is the thought that he might be losing you for good.
This is when using male psychology is so effective. No matter how strong a man's ego might be, he can't stand to be ignored. It makes it worse when it is his ex girlfriend who is ignoring him. That is how you can turn things around and make your ex boyfriend desperate enough to start chasing you again. The problem will be, do you have the strength to do it?
It will take courage to walk away from the man you love and start another life, but if you want your ex back, that is what you will have to do. If you look at what is happening now and the way you keep being hurt by his rejections, what have you got to lose. If you keep on chasing and begging him, your ex will soon become tired of seeing you red eyed and needy and look for someone else.
But, if you walk away and begin going out with your friends for a good time, the man who has been rejecting you will wonder why you don't want him anymore. You know how it feels to think that someone you love does not want you. It make you want them more and you will do anything to get them back. Your ex boyfriend has the same feelings as you and he will suddenly realize the breakup was a mistake.
When you push a man, he will pull away. But, when you pull away from him, he will be pulled toward you. That is how male psychology works. Men will always go after what they think they can't have and it is his nature to chase. That is why having the courage to ignore your ex boyfriend will make him desperate and he will start chasing you again.