Meeting a true love is such a beautiful thing. We cherish the times we spend with the love of our lives. Your ex-boyfriend could have been the best thing you ever had done. Losing him is a nightmare to behold. You would rather the earth opened up and swallowed you alive than lose your precious man. This is not new to anyone; you have probably heard your friend or colleague tell you that their relationship has gone soar. They could be looking for answers and solutions on how to get back their boy friend, but you could be just as clueless.
The first thing that you should never do is become angry and desperate. This will undoubtedly push him so far away from you. Calm down and put your thoughts together. Think over the relationship and try and see where it went wrong. Either party or an outsider could have been the cause of the break up. After carefully scrutinizing and finding out where the mess all began, then you can now think of a plan of how to get him back. It may not be easy but keep at it and you will succeed in the end.
Look for ways that the two of you can meet. Do it in such a subtle manner that he will not have a hint as to what you are trying to do. Make it look like it's a coincidence. The opportunities you get to meet him should not portray a grumpy girl. Look happy with yourself. Let him see that you are not just thinking about him but that you are also preoccupied with your usual stuff. This attribute will definitely attract him back to you. Be kind and considerate without acting out any revenge. He will be drawn back to you faster than you think.
Let your ex-boyfriend's friends take back a good report about you. When you meet his friends treat them well with respect and without reflecting back on the past. What your boyfriend hears is most likely to either perch up his ears for more information about you or discontinue his friends from talking about you. The good that you do now will prevail more than what you could have done to mess up the relationship. With time human beings are inclined to forget the bad that you did. Continue treating his family with respect. This will give you a huge milestone to you getting him back.
Avoid any negative talk from your friends about him. Despite your friends knowing that you broke up with your ex; it should not be a means to deter him away from you completely. At the back of your mind you know that he is the one destined for you. Your friends may not understand this; hence avoid all ill talk about him.
Look more beautiful by losing weight or start dressing in sexier and appealing clothes. Adorn a new hairstyle, wear new make up or get that perfume with an alluring scent. All this new character will give you a perfect chance of making your ex boyfriend come back to you in no time.