It's hard to try to come up with something to say to your ex girlfriend when you still have the hope that you'll be able to patch things up and win her back. It's kind of funny how that happens, you can go from having no problems at all speaking to her and end up feeling like you can't seem to muster the words that you need in order to make her feel like she wants to be back with you again.
What are some tips that can help you out if you find it hard to come up with something to say to your ex girlfriend?
1. You do NOT want to spend all of your time trying to come up with the perfect thing to say as much as you might feel like that is the right thing to do.
When you try to be perfect when talking to your ex girlfriend, you are going to end up wasting lots of time and energy and effort. It's perfectly natural that you might want to come up with the perfect thing to say to your ex girlfriend and look for that one line that is going to melt her heart, but you know what? You'll never find it and that is something that you need to accept.
2. You also do NOT want to talk about past problems with your ex girlfriend because that just leads to trouble a lot of the time.
Trying to rehash old history is not the way to go if you are looking to move forward and you are hoping to be able to have a future with your ex girlfriend. You also don't want to run the risk of ending up having an argument with your ex girlfriend over an old issue that doesn't really matter anymore.
3. You need to be able to find a way to use the conversation to build rapport with your ex girlfriend.
This is what it is really all about. If you can find that connection that makes your ex girlfriend feel a lot of rapport with you, then you will have a pretty good chance of being able to win her back. Without having that sense of rapport with your ex girlfriend, you are going to find it quite difficult to be able to patch things up with her if that is what you want to be able to do.