When the man who you thought was your knight in shining armor tells you that he needs a break, you naturally go into a panic and think he doesn't love you anymore. This can cause you to do things that you never thought you would do. Things that are the opposite of what you should be doing if you ever expect your ex boyfriend to fall in love with you again.
Becoming desperate and acting like he is the only man on the face of the earth who would want you will not make your ex boyfriend consider you to be much of a prize. When he first met you, it was the other way around and you showed him a woman who was self confident and unattainable. This gave him a challenge and soon he was chasing you.
If you want your ex boyfriend to fall in love with you again, you have to re-create this situation and make him feel challenged again. But you can't do that by running after him and telling him that you can't live without him. You have to convince your ex that he can't live without you. The best way to do that is show him that you can get along perfectly well without him.
When you are pushing your ex boyfriend to talk to you he will automatically pull away from you. However if you are pulling away from him, he will be drawn to you. This is just simple male psychology. Men always want what they think they can't have. That is why he chased you in the beginning and it is what will make him fall in love with you and start chasing you again.
Stop and think of what happened after you let him catch you. You probably stopped being independent and tried in every way to please your man. There's nothing wrong with that unless you become too clingy and reliant upon him. Then the man you love will become bored and not think you are not such a prize after all. He will start looking around for new challenges and tell you he needs a break.
To make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again all you need to do is let him know that you are still attractive to other men. Go out with your crowd and let him hear about how other guys are hitting on you. This should wake him up to the fact that he is still in love with you and doesn't want to lose you for good.
This is only one of the many things you can do to make the man you love attracted to you again. Male psychology can be used in so many ways to make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again. Knowing how to get inside his head and directing his thoughts can keep him devoted to you for good. But it all starts with ignoring him and showing him that you can be happy without him.