Something happened to what you thought was a relationship that was meant to last forever. If it hadn't suddenly fallen apart, you wouldn't be reading this right now. You are also stunned because you didn't have any clue that he was unhappy, but you want to get your ex boyfriend back. Things look pretty bad to you right now, but most people go through something like this during a relationship, yet they find a way to get back together.
However, if you are wondering how you can make your ex boyfriend love you again, you are thinking the wrong way. You can't force yourself on your ex and so you can't “make” him love you again. It is the usual feeling after a breakup to think your ex boyfriend doesn't love you anymore. But, you don't know what is really going on in his mind. So, what makes you think he doesn't love you anymore?
Of course he broke up with you and that would make you think he doesn't love you anymore, but if you think begging and crying will make him tell you the truth, you are wrong. Men get stubborn when you try to force them to do something and he is just going to clam up. The best way to find out if he is still in love with you is to stop trying to get him to talk to you.
If you can do it, you should stop having any contact with your ex at all. Don't send a text to ask how he is and don't stalk him. Actually taking some time away from him will be good for you as well. You can start thinking more clearly and try to figure out what went wrong. It's easy for some guys to get their feelings hurt and they have to have some time to pout and get it out of their system.
During this time apart, your ex boyfriend will also have time to miss you and realize how much he still loves you. Remember the old saying, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder?” Well it may be old, but it's very true. No matter what it is, being without something, makes you long for it. Think of your favorite food, if you were deprived of it for a while, you would crave it like crazy.
When you ask if it is possible to make your ex boyfriend love you again? The answer is no, but you can cause him to realize he still loves you. You are going to have to sacrifice for a bit, but the reward can be great. Men are not so hard to understand. They want to be happy and free of problems. As long as you are pushing him you are making him unhappy and you are becoming a problem.
To find out if your ex boyfriend still loves you, you have to let him make the first move. He broke up with you and he has to be the one to come back. It won't be easy to do nothing, but it is the best way to get your ex back.