It can be painful and very humiliating when your boyfriend dumps you. At first you feel anger, but then you realize that you still love him and start missing him so bad it seems like there is no way that you will ever get over him. The breakup was over a silly misunderstanding and if you could only get your ex boyfriend to communicate with you, he would see his mistake.
He won't find another who will love him as much as you do, but how can you make him see what a great woman he has lost? The answer to that is, you may have been going about it the wrong way. Showing him a woman who is needy and desperate will not make him see the great woman he lost. To make your ex boyfriend desperate to have you back, he has to see the woman he fell in love with at the start.
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If your relationship was of some length, you know what he likes and dislikes.Think of all of the things he has told you about what he finds hot and irresistible about a woman. This is what you can use to bring your ex running back to you. Once you have written down all of these traits that makes your ex boyfriend hot for a woman, you are going to become that kind of woman.
Think of what you would do if you wanted to get revenge on your ex. You would probably lose some weight, get a makeover and dress yourself in some new hot clothes. You are not going to get revenge on this man because revenge might make you feel better for a while, but it could cost you any chance of getting your ex back. However you are going to use your new look to make him regret dumping you.
To do this you are going to move on with your life and find new interests to occupy your time and mind. If you do things like taking a class or two in order to prepare yourself for a better job, he will hear of it and admire your ambition. If you do volunteer work among the needy your ex boyfriend will be touched by your compassion. But most importantly he will begin to wonder why he ever let such a great woman go.
You will be showing him that the breakup actually has made you a stronger and better person. The more he sees and hears that instead of sitting at home engaging in self pity, you are having a good life without him, your ex boyfriend will see his mistake. This will make him take a look at what he has been doing since the breakup. All he has done is have some drinking bouts with his friends and dated a few women who couldn't measure up to you in a million years.
Next he will reflect on how good his life was with you and your ex boyfriend will realize what a great woman he has lost. His next move will be to find you and beg you to take him back. You can do all of this and enjoy your life at the same time.