A lot of things are said after a breakup. At the time of the split, the words might be bitter and angry, but as time passes, you may realize that you have lost the only man you can ever love and your attitude changes. Instead of blaming him and saying angry words, you start begging him to forgive you. Yet he is the one who broke up with you, how can you make sense of that?
Of course when you want something, you are apt to go after it. That is why you have to make your ex boyfriend want you again and to do that you have to make him change his attitude. However you will have to exercise some patience. If you say the words that will bring your ex running back to you too soon, he will think you are only playing games with him.
In order to make him see that the breakup was a mistake, you have to make him feel some pain. The same type of pain and hopelessness that you are feeling right now. Make him see how empty his life is without you and that he may have lost you for good. This might seem like a lot to accomplish, but you can do it by simply walking away and start ignoring him.
Nothing causes a man to lose his self esteem as fast as having his ex girlfriend ignore him. When you start living your own life and going out again, you will immediately get his attention. This doesn't mean that you should start dating other men to make him jealous. That's a cheap trick and can easily backfire on you. All you want to do is prepare him for the time you will use the words that will bring him back running.
You have to show him you can live without him and as soon as you do, he will realize how much he loses you. Next will come the feeling that there is a void in his life and your ex boyfriend will begin to miss you. He will be losing his comfort zone and wondering if you might find another guy. He might even ask your mutual friends if you are dating.
However, men have a big ego and he will still think he can just snap his fingers and you will come running to him. This is why you need the patience to make your ex boyfriend have doubts. His male ego and pride can also be used against him because when you start ignoring him, his friends will begin to make jokes about his bragging that he could get you back whenever he chose.
When you see these things happening, your ex boyfriend should be ready for the words that will bring him running back to you. What are these words? They are, I agree. Simply send him a text and say, “I agree that the breakup was best for both of us.” Then you can add goodbye and good luck if you wish. If he still loves you he will be trying to contact you and say that the two of you need to talk.