Getting your boyfriend back isn't always a walk in the park. You may have been trying for some time, without success, to make it happen. That's probably what led you here. You're looking for a quick and easy, perhaps even magical, solution to get him back for good this time around. What is Magic?
For some people magic is something mystical and wonderful that cannot be understood, much less explained. For other people, magic is simply a trick of the eye or some sort of sleight of hand that always has a solution. Whether your definition of magic includes something enchanting and wonderful or a mystery to solve, getting your boyfriend back doesn't involve supernatural maneuverings.
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A few magic words certainly want help.
This is the little pop of fun, pep, and life that is necessary in all lasting relationships. What kind of zip has your relationship had lately? Were things going along swell and suddenly the bottom fell out?
Have things been slowly switching from sizzle to fizzle in recent months? When was the last time you went on a romantic date together? How long has it been since you weren't able to keep your hands off each other? But how do you put the “zip” back in after the fact?
You add the zip into your own life. Spruce up your image a bit. Add a little sparkle to your appearance, add a little boost to your confidence, and become the vibrant, active girl you were when you first met. If the two of you move in remotely similar social circles he will hear about the new you – and it will drive him insane with curiosity.
Get into the best shape of your life. Whether it's losing weight or adding a little tone, now is the time to get into shape and really take care of yourself. Make sure you're eating nutritious meals and drinking plenty of water to stay hydrated. These things are important because the one thing you want, more than anything else, if you cross paths with your ex boyfriend is to come across as happy and healthy. He expects you to do a little bit of pining and it's going to really make him curious about what's going on in your life if you're going around looking better than ever.
Keep going and don't stop to grieve over him. Commit yourself to living your best life without him in it. It's not moving on. It's not letting go of the idea of getting him back. It's even better. It's showing him that you don't NEED him – all the while he's figuring out that he might actually need you.
Relationships aren't easy, but neither is breaking up. Give him the chance to see that you're making it on your own, without him, and he's very likely to make the first move so you will have no trouble convincing him that the idea to get back together was all his. THAT is the truly magical aspect of getting your boyfriend back – convincing him that he's the one who wanted to make it happen.