It is only natural that you should miss your ex boyfriend after a breakup. and he should be missing you too. After all you shared a lot of things together and the good times are hard to forget. However there is a difference. If you are sitting alone and wishing you had your ex back or if you are chasing him and begging him to want you again, you are not giving him any reason to miss you.
When you are sitting alone, you are wondering if the man you love is in the arms of another woman and that almost drives you crazy. This makes you call him and scream you can't live without him. But none of the things you are doing will make him miss you. In order to make your ex boyfriend miss you and regret the breakup, you have to stop thinking with your heart and think with your head.
Once two people are in love there will always be a connection. But, you can't use that connection as an excuse for calling, sending emails and text messages. You no longer have a right to do that because the man who used to be your boyfriend is now your ex boyfriend. That is one of the hardest things to accept after a breakup, but once you accept the fact, things will get a whole lot easier.
Your ex boyfriend did not stop loving you because of the breakup. He probably is trying to bury that love because if he recognizes it, he will come running back and ask you to forgive him. That means you have to make him uncover his love for you and the best way to do that is to make him miss you. Stop and think for a minute. What makes you miss something? It is because it is no longer there!
This is why you miss your ex so much. You think he might be gone for good. Think of what would happen if you could make him feel the same way. Make him think you are gone for good and he will begin to miss you and the love he is trying so hard to hide will surface. The best way of accomplishing this is to use male psychology to push his emotional hot buttons.
The fastest way to make your ex boyfriend miss you and regret the breakup is to disappear from his life. Remember, you can't miss something until it is gone. Take a trip to visit friends or relatives.They will give you some much needed support and help you rebuild your self confidence as well. It will also make your ex boyfriend look around and wonder what happened to you.
It is a characteristic of men that they cannot stand to lose what they think is theirs. You might find this hard to believe, but he still considers you his girlfriend. When you disappear, the first thing that he will think is, you have run off with another guy. Suddenly the love for you that he has buried will surface and he will regret the breakup. Your ex will be kicking himself all over town for letting you go and he will start making plans to get you back.