You and your boyfriend might have had an argument and he said he didn't love you anymore. Now you are devastated and think you have lost him for good. But, people say things in the heat of anger that they don't mean and later they are sorry they said them. This is commonly known as a lovers quarrel and the way you react will have a big bearing on how long it will take to get your ex back.
If you give in to your emotions and start sending text messages and calling night and day, you will be feeding his ego and he will know he can have you back at anytime. To make your ex sorry and come running back, you have to create some urgency. What could be more urgent than showing him that you are okay with the breakup and you are moving on?
You might not be aware of this, but women mature much faster than men. That can make you think that you are dealing with a mature man, when you are actually dealing with one that is immature. In fact, inside every man, no matter what age he might be, there is the small boy that never grows up. what does this have to do with getting your ex back? Everything!
If you or a girlfriend of yours has a little brother, you should have experienced them throwing a temper tantrum. Perhaps they we denied some thing and they begin to kick, throw himself on the floor and doing whatever they can to be annoying. If the parents give in to the small boy, he will think that anytime he wants his way, he can throw a tantrum and he will get what he wants.
But, what happens if that same small boy is ignored? In most cases, he will stop kicking and yelling. When the rest of the family talks and has fun, he will feel left out of things and sneak back to say he is sorry. This is the way you have to treat your ex boyfriend if you want to make him sorry for the way he treated you. This is the way men or little boys are the same.
When you do not give into your emotions and chase your ex, but instead you ignore him, you are using male psychology to get inside his head. By going out with friends and letting him know you are not sitting at home moping, you will make him feel left out of things. Your ex will start remembering the good times you had together and start to miss you.
That is the key to making your ex boyfriend sorry and come running back to you. The more he misses you, the more he will worry about losing you for good. Soon he will be the one who will be sending text and calling. However, you should not be too quick to take him back. Don't wait until he gets discouraged, but he needs to know that you can live without him.