When you are still in love with the man who dumped you, it is natural to be confused and wonder what you did to make him stop loving you. Of course this confusion can lead to making mistakes that will only push him farther away. To get your ex back, you need to understand that there are certain rules to follow after a breakup.
There are certain things that you can do that will make your guy begin to miss you and regret the breakup. But, if you don't follow these rules it can cause you to lose the man you love for good. Certain actions that you take will effect his thinking and push his emotional hot buttons to the max. This is known as using male psychology.
However on the other hand you can also do things that will make him wonder what he ever saw in you and push him right into the arms of another woman. So, before you start chasing your ex boyfriend and try to make him talk to you, it would be wise to know what will pull him back to you and what will push him away. There are rules of engagement in war and also rules you need to follow when you are trying to get back the man you love.
First of all you have to realize that you can't force your ex to want to be with you. Your guy broke up with you because he wasn't happy with your relationship and the more you push him the more he will remember why he was unhappy. However, absence does make the heart grow fonder and if you give him time, he may begin to think of the good times you had together.
You also need time to get your emotions in check and think of what might have caused the breakup. It is important that you try to make changes in yourself instead of thinking of ways to change your ex boyfriend. He knows his faults and when he has time to think they will become apparent to him. When he begins to see that the breakup was the fault of both of you, he will be see how important you are to him.
The best way to get back the man you love is to use the no contact rule and let male psychology do the rest. Allowing your ex boyfriend to see what his life is like without you can bring him running back faster than anything else.
But once you have him back you want to keep him for good so remember that a successful relationship involves a lot of give and take and you both need to realize that the good outweighs the bad.