If your boyfriend has just dumped you, you are probably getting a lot of advice from your family and friends. The more you hear the more confused you become. Seeing you crying and so hurt will make them angry at your ex boyfriend and they will naturally tell you to let the bum go and forget him. The amazing thing is that letting him go is very good advice. Of course you won't want to take their advice because you are sill in love with your ex
However, letting him go for now is the best thing you can do. This doesn't mean you are going to take the rest of their advice and forget him. You are going to let him go in order to get your ex back. That might sound a little confusing, but if you think about it you will see the sense in it. You have probably been doing your best to contact your guy and tell him how much you love him and need him in your life. But, he has been ignoring you.
Look what your ex boyfriend's ignoring you is doing. It is making you want him all the more and you are desperate to get him back. On the other hand, he is very relaxed and comfortable because he knows he can have you back anytime he wants you. If you want to get your ex back, you have to turn everything around. You have to make your ex boyfriend confused and desperate while you appear to be relaxed and comfortable.
The way to accomplish this is to do the same thing to your ex boyfriend that he is doing to you. You have to dump him and ignore him. Again that might sound silly to think you can dump a guy who has dumped you, but he wont see anything silly about it. When you stop sending text and calling him, he is going to start losing some of his comfort. Your ex boyfriend will wonder why you stopped chasing him and begin to be confused.
The more you ignore him the more confused he will become and soon he will realize how much he misses you and that the breakup was a mistake. Your ex boyfriend will also be embarrassed because you are ignoring him. Nothing can get under a man's skin more than having his ex girlfriend ignore him. It is a serious blow to his ego and pride and he will have to do something to keep his macho image. That is when he will decide he has to get you back.
However, your ex boyfriend will not just be trying to get you back to save his macho image. By ignoring him you have made him realize how much he loves you and needs you in his life. He will feel that he won't be able to get through another day without you and he will beg, crawl or do whatever is necessary to get you back in his arms.