You have been worried about losing your ex boyfriend for good since he broke up with you. You are afraid that he will forget about you and find someone else. That's why you keep sending him text and calling him night and day. But, you will never get your ex back until you make him have a worried mind. You might ask, “Why would he be worried if he broke up with you?' The answer is because he is still in love with you.
Your ex boyfriend probably did not breakup with you because he stopped loving you. Something hurt his feelings or injured his pride and he went off to sulk for awhile. The reason you are so desperate to get him back is because you are following your heart, but the more you keep showing him that you want him back, the longer you are going to be without him.
If you were not letting your emotions control your actions, you would realize that now is the time to leave your ex boyfriend alone. The only thing you are going to accomplish by staying in his face is to be less attractive and push him farther away. This is the exact opposite of what you should be doing. You want to do all of the things that will pull him back into your arms and making him have a worried mind is the fastest way to bring him running back.
What will make your ex boyfriend have a worried mind? It is not knowing where you are or what you are doing and that is what you should be working at right now. All of your focus has been about getting your ex back, but you have to start thinking of yourself because not sleeping or eating can ruin your health and then where will you be? So stop sending text and making phone calls, cease all contact with him and drop off the face of the earth.
If possible you should take a trip. This will give you time to relax and get yourself back to something like normal. It will also give your ex boyfriend the chance to experience his life without you. The longer you are away from him the more you will be on his mind and the more he thinks of you the more he will miss you. Soon he will wonder if you have found another man and that will be the beginning of your ex boyfriend having a worried mind.
When you get back, you may find that your ex has been sending text, emails and making phone calls by the dozen. Make sure that you have a firm grip on your emotions before you answer any of his communication. You have gone to far to mess things up now and here will be no need to hurry because your ex boyfriend who dumped you is now the one with a worried mind.