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Do you have a burning desire to be in a committed relationship with an amazing man but find yourself always running back to your ex? If so, don't feel bad. I used to do the same thing.

You see, I had this strong desire to be with a man that would love me, honor me, be my best friend, and someone who I truly enjoyed spending time with. So on my journey to meeting this man, I would meet and date men on and off. However, during my off time I found myself running back to my ex.


At first I would start with a simple text or a phone call. I just wanted to see how he was doing and what was going on in his world. Then we would start spending time together. Lastly, I found myself having sex with him.

Don't get me wrong the sex was good but I noticed this started to become a pattern.

Why did I always run back to this man who I had no intentions of being in a committed relationship with?

I didn't feel guilty after having sex with him however; I knew that this behavior was not going to help me fulfill my vision of my love life. After doing some thinking and really understanding my situation, I came to the following conclusion:

  1. I feared being alone.
  2. My ex was my comfort zone.
  3. I was truly afraid of starting a serious relationship because I feared what might happen.

You may be in a situation where you are constantly running back to your ex but you have to make a decision.

Are you going to close the door to your past so that you can receive the man that you want or are you going to continue to self-sabotage your love life?

My ex was physical baggage. In order for me to attract the man that I am with today, I had to let him go. Yes, it was hard but I did it anyway.

During my in between men stage I begin to value myself, learn more about myself, grow my relationship with God, and overcome my self-sabotaging behaviors.

So, it is time to make a decision.

Let your baggage go or continue to self-sabotage your love life.

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