Did you and your boyfriend suddenly feel the need to separate? It doesn't matter if the relationship was going good and then died. Sometimes it happens. You can still get him back. However, how do you get your ex boyfriend back without driving him away further.
You'll have to ask yourself four hard questions. It's important that you have the answers to your questions before attempting to get your ex boyfriend back.
Question 1 – Was the situation that caused the breakup vital enough to get the attention it got?
Question 2 – Does the situation still warrant arguing about?
Question 3 – Will changing the situation do anything to solve the argument or should you just move on past it?
Question 4 – Was the argument worth it initially?
Did you answer no to any of the questions above? If so, then let the entire matter go. If you want your ex back, dropping the argument can help you in achieving that goal. It may surprise you to know that many arguments that lead to breakups were silly and preventable. As long as both parties are willing to let it drop, the relationship can move forward.
If you want your ex back, stop worrying how others see you. Be your charming self and let your natural behavior shine. When everyone, including your ex boyfriend, sees how you really are, they'll see you and not a supposed version of you.
You need time to heal so distance yourself from your ex. It may sound a little silly but breakups are very emotional so give yourself and your ex some distance. If you remove the stress that hovers between the both of you then you can feel more relaxed when you see each other. Chances are he'll feel as relaxed as you. Thus, you both can work together to change what needs to be changed. Remember that absence does make the heart grow fonder. Don't go absent for too long. You should stay in contact but keep emotions out of the conversation for now.
When you both have calmed down and the matter has been analyzed thoroughly then this is the time to talk to one another about things including your relationship. A little calm talking can achieve the goal you want: getting him back.
Many breakups can be overcome with a bit of patience, time and understanding. If you want your ex boyfriend back, then you have to show him that you care for him intently and that arguments are just that… arguments that can be overcome.