Most women seek a magic word or action that can bring your boyfriend back after a breakup. Well you will be happy to know that although it is not chanting some phrase or casting a spell, using male psychology and common sense will almost seem like magic. What most woman do not understand about breakups is, your boyfriend would probably never have broken up with you if he thought you didn't love him.
He knew you loved him and he expected you to chase him and beg for his love. That will build his ego and make him feel like a big man. But, it only shows his immaturity. Since he is acting like a child, the best way to control his actions is to treat him like the immature little brat he is showing you he is. How would you treat a bratty little brother that was nasty and tried to hurt you?
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You might beat the crap out of him or just ignore him and stay away from him. If you show your little brother that you are not bothered by his actions, it takes all of the fun out of it. When you refuse to talk to him, he will come around and tell you he is sorry. The same is true with your ex boyfriend, with one difference. You have to make your ex think that chasing you again is his own idea.
Men get very stubborn if they think they are forced into something, so you have to be careful. But, if you have been dating your man for sometime, you know a lot about him. This gives you an advantage you didn't have when you first met him. However, you can do one thing that any woman can do to spark an ex boyfriend's interest again. Simply ignore him.
When you ignore your ex boyfriend you will push his most vulnerable hot button. Men hate being ignored in general, but having an ex girlfriend ignore him will make it worse. Just like with a nasty little brother, it takes all of the fun out of breaking up with you. When you act like you are content to just let him go, it will flatten his ego. In fact it will give him the feeling that you have dumped him.
Another part of male psychology is that they can't stand to lose anything they consider to be theirs. You might not realize it, but your ex boyfriend still considers you to be his girlfriend. In fact, by not chasing him, you are making him look bad to his buddies. Breaking up with his girlfriend and having her show no interest in getting him back does not make him look very macho.
The magic in using male psychology to push an ex boyfriend's hot buttons and bring him running back is simply doing the opposite of what he expects you to do. He will soon realize that he is acting like a fool and come begging you to forgive him.