If your boyfriend has recently broken up with you, you are feeling the loneliness that only a broken heart can cause you to feel. You wake up at night thinking you heard his voice. At the mall you could swear that you have seen him many times. This only makes you miss him more and realize how much you love him. Don't you wish you could make your ex have these same feelings?
You may have talked to your family and friends about how much you miss your guy and they have told you to forget him and move on. Although you don't want to hear such advice, it might be the right thing for you to do. If you want to get your ex back, you might have to move on, but that does not mean you are giving up on getting back the man you love.
One of the main reasons, you miss your ex so much is because he has rejected you and rejection can be pretty hard to handle. The only way you can rid yourself of this feeling of rejection is to get your ex boyfriend back. Even if you move on and find someone else there will be times when you will remember this feeling of rejection. But, if he won't talk to you, how can you get your ex boyfriend back?
The answer to that is, make your ex boyfriend feel the same rejection you are feeling. Make him have sleepless nights and he will realize how much he misses you. He will hate the feeling of being rejected as much as you hate the feeling and the only way he can rid himself of it will be to get you back. This is not a form of revenge, it is just making him see how important you are to his life.
How do you make him have this feeling of rejection? You have to dump your ex boyfriend and the best way of doing that is to let him know that you think breaking up was a good idea and you were thinking of doing the same thing. This is not what he will expect and his ego will find it hard to take. He expected you to cry and beg, but saying you think the breakup is a good idea will knock him for a loop.
Once you tell this to your ex, you can't have any more contact with him. Show him you mean it by being seen out on the town having fun. You might even want to visit the place he hangs out and let him see what he gave up. Make sure you don't get into a conversation with him. Just let him get a good look at you and then leave. This is also using male psychology because he will want what he thinks he can no longer have.
You will have to keep yourself occupied, so you won't be tempted to send a text or call him. But, if you can stay strong, your ex boyfriend will begin to miss you and realize that he needs you in his life. That will make him want to get you back.