When your boyfriend breaks up with you, it can be embarrassing, frustrating and confusing. You search your mind for what you said or did to drive him away, but you can think of nothing. How you wish you could text him and tell him how much you miss him and love him and that would bring him back and things would be like they were before the breakup.
The problem with this kind of thinking is that your ex would still be with you if he had been satisfied with the way things were before the breakup. But, something happened and you don't know why he suddenly said he needed a break. Not knowing what you did can make you desperate and you may start sending text messages by the thousands and calling him day and night, but they will be ignored.
There are many reasons why your guy may need a break from your relationship and some of them won't have anything to do with what you did or didn't do. He could be having trouble at work or school. His family might be in a turmoil about something and he doesn't want you to know. But the most common reason for a guy needing a break is boredom.
Everything is exciting when a relationship begins. You are discovering new things about each other and how thrilling it is to be in love. Unfortunately nothing stays new for very long and soon you begin to get used to it and take it for granted. It doesn't mean your ex boyfriend is not in love with you anymore, but he might not realize just how much he loves you.
Men need a wake up call sometimes, to make them appreciate what they have. However as long as you keep running after him, he may never see how important you are to his life. The best way to make someone appreciate something is to take it away from them. That means that you have to accept the breakup and let your ex boyfriend go for now.
Letting him go can be pretty frightening, but if you want your ex back, you might have to do something pretty drastic. Until he realizes what his life is like without you, he will not appreciate your love. That means to get back the man you love you have to make him think that you are over him and ready to move on. But first, you need to make him see what he is losing.
Go out with your friends and make sure you look your best. Stop by where your ex hangs out and let him get a good look at you and then leave. Seeing other guys hanging around you, should make him aware that he is close to losing you for good. This will make him try to contact you by text or phone and ask how you are doing. Ignore his text and don't take his phone calls for a week.
Then text him back and tell him you have been busy. Add that you realize the breakup was a good idea and wish him luck. If he loves you, that will make him come running back and begging you to forgive him.