After a breakup, you might try to get your ex boyfriend back by yourself. You may try several tactics that you have heard other women talk about using, but when nothing works, you go seeking advise. One thing you will find is that there isn't any shortage of it. some of it is good and some of it is really bad. However, something that I have found to be very effective when you are trying to get your ex back is reverse psychology.
Anything connected with psychology is sure to make you think it must be something pretty deep and difficult. But to use reverse psychology, you don't need a degree from a university and it is very easy to understand. This simple tactic will allow you to get inside your ex boyfriend's head and change his attitude completely.
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Your ex boyfriend was pretty sure of himself when he broke up with a you. He thought that you were still deeply in love with him and you would do everything possible to get him back and he was right. You have probably been telling him you can't live without him and your love for him will never die. So you are playing your ex boyfriend's game and he is completely in control.
It's a good feeling for a guy to have his ex girlfriend hanging around and begging him to come back. He can go out and date other women and know that when he wants you, all he has to do is let you know it. With reverse psychology, you can take the secure feeling away from him and gain the control. In fact, you can actually turn things around and have your ex boyfriend chasing you.
When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend threw you into a psychological loop. You thought the man you love was gone for good and that caused you to feel he was the most important thing in your life. But, if you suddenly stop trying to get your ex back, you will find his attitude take a sudden change. Once the text messages and phone calls stop, he is going to wonder what happened to you.
When your ex boyfriend begins to wonder about you, the reverse psychology will begin to work. Now, your ex will be wondering if you still love him. If you really disappear for a while, he might start imagining you in some other guy's arms. It is then that he will realize bow much he loves you and that he doesn't want to lose you for good. In fact he will feel that you are dumping him.
With reverse psychology, you simply do exactly what your ex boyfriend will not expect. But you have to do it completely. If you go about it half-heartedly, your ex will see right through it and feel that you are trying to manipulate him. When you start ignoring your ex it must be completely. No contact what-so-ever.
This doesn't mean that you should date other guys, but you have to show your man that he needs you more than you need him. When he realizes this, your ex boyfriend will be desperate to get you back.