While I'm sure that there will be those who strongly disagree, in all honesty, getting back with an ex girlfriend can often be harder than getting back with an ex boyfriend. Women, being the emotionally connected beings that they are, have many reservations, conditions, and apprehensions. You can't really make her do what she doesn't want to do. Women take a lot of effort to convince and they're always on the lookout for those subtle, subliminal, yet nonetheless powerful unspoken messages that a man's body language will speak. And once she has set her mind into something, it's hard to make her think otherwise. But don't get all discouraged and think that your chances of getting her back are none and Buckley's. I'm here to tell you that you can still get her back if your heart's set on it and it is without doubt what you want to do above all else. If you want to know how to get her back, get rid of any pent up anger, get your head on straight and follow the tips below for starters.
Tip #1: Don't Set Yourself An Absolute Deadline
If you want to get back with your ex girlfriend, you have to be ready to woo her back for as long as it takes. There's no magic formula here or prescribed timeframe in which to accomplish it. You can't really give her or yourself a deadline when we're talking about matters of the heart. If you really want to get her back, you have to start making all those sacrifices that you knew would be up for discussion and negotiation with her. Think compromise first, compromise second and compromise third. It's not a bad policy to follow if you're serious about making amends and winning her back.
Tip #2: Don't Be Too Obvious That You Want Her Back
You can easily gauge a woman if she wants to talk about the lost relationship or not. If she wants to remain cordial and civil with you, she'll say so. If she doesn't want to see your face at all, then make no mistake, she'll tell that to you as well. But if she's entertaining questions about your love affair that was, then that's the best time to talk about it. The rule of thumb is this: never appear needy, clingy or desperate in front of your girlfriend. She'll only be turned off by it.
Tip #3: Try To Do The Opposite Of What You Want
Now listen up closely because this is the most sensitive tip. If you want to get back with your ex girlfriend, you shouldn't be too demonstrative (showy) about it. Instead, try to be a bit on the casual side. Do not make any drastic moves about getting her back. This strategy is called the reverse psychology strategy. Sometimes, the real way on how to get her back is not to try to get her back at all, if you get what I mean.