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You were hurt and humiliated when your ex boyfriend dumped you. Now you want to see him feel the same hurt, so you are thinking of playing some dirty tricks and get revenge. However, before you take any action at all you need to consider the consequence of your action. The reason you were so badly hurt is because you are still in love with him. If you didn't care for him anymore, you would just tell him goodbye and good luck.

In fact telling your ex goodbye and good luck is probably the fastest way to get your ex back, but almost impossible to do. If you are considering getting revenge, you have probably been trying to contact him, but your ex boyfriend is ignoring you. But, if you take the time to think and be honest with yourself, you know that you shouldn't be bothering him so soon after the breakup.


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You should also think about what would be the result of you playing dirty tricks and getting revenge. He might begin to hate you and that would end any chance of getting back the man you love. Chasing a man or trying to hurt him will only push him farther away. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you have to cause him to miss you and want to be with you again. That means doing things to pull him back instead of pushing him away.

Why are you hurt and humiliated? The answer to that is simple. You are still in love with the guy, you miss him and you feel humiliated because of what your friends and family may think. Well, there is something that you can do that will make your ex boyfriend have these same feelings and become desperate to get you back. It won't be easy, but it works nearly every time.

Your ex boyfriend has been used to having you around and that might have caused him to become bored and wonder what he was missing. He wasn't ready to settle down just yet, but he saw that you were pushing him for a commitment. This is the point where many relationships encounter trouble. As a woman you have a desire to nest and as a man he has a desire to have his freedom and roam.

It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you and he probably is sorry that he hurt you. He also expects you to hang around and wait until he is ready to settle down. If you have been desperately telling him you can't live without him, you are confirming his belief. To get your ex back, you have to let him have the time to experience what his life would be like without you.

To do that you must have the strength to start ignoring your ex boyfriend. Nothing will get his attention faster than having his ex girlfriend ignore him. Soon he will become the target of jokes from his buddies and begin to feel the same humiliation that you have been feeling. When he realizes he could be losing you for good, he will beg you to take him back. What better revenge than that?

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