You will find a multitude of advice floating around on getting your boyfriend back. Some is good actionable advice and some is quite flaky. Begging him to come back is not a good idea, so do not lower yourself to that level. You can use Psychological and Expert Tips to get your ex boyfriend back in your life; directions on what to do to get effective expert relationship advice is at the last paragraph of this article.
Making him jealous or playing mind games is advised by some people, and to a certain extent they work, but with side effects. Do you really want to get back together based on him being jealous? If your answer is that you do not care, you are missing the point. The relationship will not last. Your relationship will end as soon as he knows he has you back or the old issues surface again.
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Using trickery, games, or love spells (whatever they are) is not going to help your situation, so why not just say you are sorry for what happened. Simple, right? I doubt the breakup was entirely your fault, but most likely there were few things you did wrong. It will not hurt to say you are sorry for that.
Acknowledging your mistakes carries a side benefit that allows you to make changes. When you and your ex boyfriend get back together, you will not be making the same mistakes again, thus avoid causing pain for both of you again.
Just that one piece of advice is good on getting your boyfriend back, because if you do not get back together the advice will help you in your next relationship to avoid those mistakes. You win either way, just figure out the mistakes and make changes.
When apologizing to him, keep it short, sweet and to the point. Just let him know you are genuinely sorry for any mistakes you may have made and sorry for the hurt you have caused him.
Do not dramatize the apology, forget about begging or crying. Do not have high hopes that he will take you back on the spot immediately. Most likely he will not. Likely he will think about it for awhile and base his decision on the 'new' more mature you if he would like to give the relationship a second try.
Give him space, if he does not take you back immediately. Cut him some slack and do not contact him for a while. He will be using the time to think things over and make a decision if he wants to rekindle his relationship with you. You will only be making the situation worst if you pester him.
Do not sit by your phone waiting during this period. Get out and live life, enjoy life. Try doing things that make you feel fantastic about yourself. Get yourself looking as hot as you can, will not hurt either. Get out with some friends and have fun, because sitting around waiting will make things move much more slowly.
Getting your boyfriend back is possible using this advice. By using it you will have a much greater chance of getting back together. Do not follow advice that says playing games and making him jealous will get him back, it will not. It is your choice.
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