It's not easy figuring out what to say to your ex to get him back. There are all kinds of things running through your head but when the time comes none of them sound as though they'll really get the job done. So, what is the secret? Is there a magical phrase that is going to get him to take you back each and every time?
Here's what to say to your ex to get him back if you're willing to use a little reverse psychology: “I think you are right; a breakup will do us good.” You've probably just popped a blood vessel or two yelling “what?” at your computer screen. By telling him that you agree breaking up is an excellent idea you are diffusing a potentially volatile situation. Believe it or not this works wonders. Why? Because by telling him that you agree the breakup is a good idea you're going to immediately have him wonder what you think was wrong with the relationship. It's going to make him try to figure out what he was doing wrong. Most importantly of all though, it's going to have him thinking about you and you want to be on his mind if you're trying to get him back. Besides agreeing with him after so many disagreements will give him a little something else to think about.
Need something else to say to get your boyfriend back? Try this: “I understand I've hurt you.” Empathy is always a winner for getting his attention. He wants to know that you are aware of this. He wants you to fix it and awareness is the first step. If he really loves you, he doesn't want the relationship to end he just realizes that they can't keep going the way they have been.
The final thing you want to say in order to get his attention is this: “I wish I understood before.” This lets him know that you finally get it and that you regret not getting it sooner. More importantly it gives him the opportunity to see that you do understand and that things might be a little different if he gives you a second chance.
In all honesty, the most difficult part isn't finding what to say to your ex to get him back but in making the changes that are necessary to sustain the new and improved relationship between the two of you.