You may have been very comfortable with your relationship and thought you knew your man. You might have even sympathized with your girlfriends who were dumped by their boyfriends and thought it would never happen to you. Now you have been dumped and you wish someone would tell you how to get your ex boyfriend back. Well, you came to the right place because I am going to tell you the best and fastest way to get your ex back.
When a relationship is running smoothly It is easy to start taking each other for granted. But men can get bored with the same routine and wonder what they are missing. This could have happened to your ex boyfriend and it made him forget how good he had it with you, so you have to remind him of why he fell in love with you to begin with. Now, don't think this means that you should call him and start telling him of your good points. In fact you shouldn't call him at all.
Everyone changes and neither you or your ex boyfriend are the same person you were when you met and fell in love. Differences develop and you have some spats that causes you to still feel anger. When a breakup occurs, it is easy to blame the latest spat as the cause, but that is not usually the case. Breakups are caused by something deeper than a spat and that's what makes it so confusing.
You might say that if it is not an argument that caused him to want a split then it is probably another woman. Now, you are getting closer to the truth, but not exactly. Your ex boyfriend is thinking of another woman, however you would be surprised at who she is. The woman your ex is thinking of and longing to see is the woman he fell in love with. For him there can never be any other woman and if you become that woman again, you will never lose the man you love again.
Just as it is easy to become bored in a relationship, it is easy to start taking the other partner for granted. You become so used to them being around that you stop doing that little extra that made him attracted to you in the beginning. You let your looks slip and allow him see you as you never would have when you started dating. But, the worst thing you can do is stop making him feel special.
Your ex boyfriend loved feeling that he was your knight in shining armor. It built his ego and made him feel like he stood head and shoulders above all other men. Then gradually you stopped complimenting him and making him feel needed. You treated him like an old comfortable chair that you took for granted would always be there. You stopped telling him you loved him as often because you felt he knew it without you constantly reminding him.
If you want your ex boyfriend back, you have to show him what he is looking for and that is the woman he fell in love with in the beginning. You will have to take more care with your looks and go to the places he hangs out and flirt with him. Show him that he is still special to you and that you need him in your life. You can't do this by words alone. You will have to show him by actions as well. When he remembers that you are the woman he is still looking for, you will get your ex boyfriend back.