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When you have lost the man you love, your only thoughts are how to make him love you again. You can read of a lot of different tactics and mind games you can play, but the question is, do they work? That all depends upon the cause of the breakup. Some tactics will work in certain cases and fail miserably in others. However if you want to get your ex back and be his one and only again you have to use the right bait.

First of all you need to realize that men are actually wild at heart. They have a gene that has been carried down for centuries, and to make him your pet he must be tamed. But, before you can tame him he must be trapped and the best bait to trap any male animal has been used by females since the beginning of time. What is this bait that is so potent and effective? Sex!

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Why do you think he was attracted to you before? It was because you raised his sexual desire and that will lure a man into your arms faster than any other tactic or mind game. Now, I am not advocating that you rip off your clothes and tumble into bed with him. That will get him back temporarily, but the lure of sex is much more powerful than the actual act.

You have to use the right bait, but just as in fishing, you have to make him work to get at the bait. You have to show him the bait and just when he thinks he has it, you take it away. How do you do that after he broke up with you? Get dressed to the nines and go out with your friends. Make sure your ex boyfriend sees you and flirt with him a little. When he attempts to make contact with you, that is when you leave.

He won't be able to get you off his mind because the vision of the bait you offered will keep swimming before his eyes. Make yourself very scarce for a week and then appear on the scene again. This time let him get close enough to smell your perfume and make him laugh. Then touch him lightly on the arm and say, “Gotta go now.” But be careful because you don't want to play so hard to get that he becomes discouraged. Just enough to show him that you are in control.

After you have shown him the bait a few times and taken it away, you will need to start answering his text and taking his phone calls. This should lead to dating again, but don't get carried away. You have targeted his heart and he is responding, however you need to go slow. Develop a solid friendship and become a good listener. Sex can become boring at times, but a good friend never does. When you become not only his lover, but best friend as well, you will never lose the man you love again.

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