In the beginning things were all kinds of hot and heavy. Then, reality creeps in, things take a turn for the worse, and suddenly your dream relationship has ended and you were left looking for ways to get her back.
You aren't the first guy this has happened to and though you may feel as if you're alone in your pain you are not. The good news in all of this is that there are a few ways to get her back that you might not have thought of yet. You don't have to stand on your head, cross your toes, and say “hocus pocus” to make them work for you either.
The problem with many books, self-help videos, and blog posts about getting a girlfriend back is that they are filled with advice that might work very well but they aren't at all practical for the average guy to follow.
You can get her back without sacrificing everything about you that makes you the person she fell in love with.
But, what can you do to get her back?
Give her a Reason to Come Back
While you don't want to change who you are at the core there are some things that are going to have to change in order for things to work out this time around. Make the changes you need to make in order to keep the peace in the relationship and you'll notice a whole new world once she gives you that second chance.
The bottom line is that you have to make the change noticeable enough to entire her to come back and deep personal changes often don't show up on the surface of the skin. If you want to get her to take the time to get to know about the changes on the inside it's a good idea to take the time to make a few changes on the packaging as well.
Ask Nicely for a Mulligan
Too often in relationships the fights take a life of their own and they become more about winning than about clearing the air or getting results. They aren't nice at all. Unfortunately, it's the unkind things that are initially remembered most about relationships once they've ended. So, you need to set her off guard by asking nicely for her to go back to the beginning and start over with you. Make this time around about building a loving and caring relationship and less about winning the skirmishes along the way and you'll ultimately win the war for her heart. Remember though not to go in with all guns blazing.
For this to work though you both have to agree to leave the past where it belongs. Then you need to follow through on your promise. Don't bring up old fights, slights, huts, and arguments. Make a few new ones instead but remember winning ways to get her back get results and don't leave either of you injured on the sideline.