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Why did your boyfriend breakup with you? That is the question every heartbroken woman wants to know. No matter what excuse he gave for the breakup, it was probably not true. But it really doesn't matter what caused him to leave, you just want your ex back. You can find a lot of information on getting your ex boyfriend back, but the best and easiest way is to make him remember why he fell in love with you to begin with.

In a relationship, it is easy to take each other for granted after awhile. You know each other's strengths and each other's weaknesses. Nobody is perfect and that is what it's all about. You have to take the bad with the good. However, a man might have to be given a wake up call now and then to make him remember why he fell in love with you.

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You know he didn't fall in love with you because you chased him and made a nuisance of yourself. You also know the reason he found you attractive was not because you let him see you red eyed from crying and with your hair a mess. You didn't win his love by begging him to love you either. Yet isn't this the way you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back?

This might or might not surprise you, but your guy probably broke up with you because he is not comfortable with the woman you have become. Sure, everybody changes, but if you have changed in ways that leave him frustrated and wondering what happened to the woman he fell in love with, he might have thought he needed some time to think the situation over.

He didn't have to think it over when he fell in love with you the first time, it was spontaneous. Think of the things he told you that he loved about you. How many of those traits do you still have? There are some things that you can't change because age is relentless. Of course, you can get a new hair style and a facial. You can get some new hot looking clothes and stop allowing him to see you at your worst.

Next you need to show him that you are okay without him. Get dressed in your new clothes and go out on the town with some friends. Make up your mind to forget your troubles and be the life of the party. You might run into your ex and he will be shocked at how great you look. Or he will hear from friends about how well you are accepting the breakup.

Men can be very curious about their ex girlfriend and don't be surprised if he sends a text or calls you to arrange a meeting. Go ahead and agree to meet your ex, but be sure you look and are at your best. If you are your old cheerful self, it's a good bet that your ex boyfriend will remember why he fell in love with you and ask you to give him another chance.

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