If your relationship has recently broken up and your boyfriend or husband has moved on to a rebound relationship, how are you supposed to get him back again? A rebound relationship is where someone dates another person soon after splitting up with their partner, to try and get over their ex. These types of relationships offer a break from the many emotions you go through after a break up. When someone needs help moving on from real love, they can turn to a rebound relationship.
And this is an important point to getting your ex back. The fact that he is in a rebound relationship to get over breaking up with you, speaks volumes. The reason for the split does not matter in this case. Whether it was you or him who initiated the break up, still doesn't matter.
Looking beyond the cause of the split, you can see that it was real love. If you remember one thing from this article, remember this; true love almost always has a way of being saved. When he is in the rebound relationship, he will think a lot about what was wrong with the relationship he had with you.
If he has picked a rebound partner completely the opposite of what you are like, this is normal because he will be trying to have less reminders of you. At this point he will be noticing the differences between his rebound partner and you, which is great for you for two reasons.
1. He cant help but think about you when he is around her.
2. It gives you an insight into what he is thinking.
If he has chosen someone as different as you can get to yourself, then it might be a hint that he felt he was missing something. If you think this rings true, try using the time you have apart to make improvements in your own life. Let him be when he is in the rebound relationship. The more time he spends with his new partner, the more flaws he will start to notice in her.
After awhile, you will be looking like the better relationship option in his eyes. This is the main reason you want him to do whatever he is going to do. He will come to realize he misses what he had with you. When he does come back asking for you, you wont need to play hard to get.
Just focus on the improvements that you have made for yourself and he will do all the chasing. When your ex moves on to a rebound relationship, know that you can get back together at some point. Keep in mind that for him to be in this type of relationship means that he had strong feelings for you when you were together and he still has them.