It's really not that bad of a thing if you feel like you still love your ex girlfriend, but you really want to be able to find a way to get her back. If you don't and you hold onto that love, it's going to eat away at you to where you just feel depressed about the fact that you are not with the woman you love. So, you really have to make a choice here. Are you going to keep on loving your ex girlfriend and work on a plan to get her back or are you just going to allow that love to eat away at you?
You know what the wise choice would be and that would be to find a way to get her back. The thing is, it's easy to say that this is what you want to do, it's much harder to actually do it and get the results that you want to get. Plenty of men have tried to win back an ex girlfriend, only to find out that as much as they might feel like she is the one that they were meant to be with, it does not mean that she is going to just walk back into your life and get back into a relationship with you.
Here are some tips on what you need to do to put together an actionable plan to try and get her back:
1) You need to be able to honestly look at the things that you need to do differently to make her want to be with you again.
You can't let your ego get in your way of seeing what you really did to make her want to end the relationship. If you don't take an honest look at the things that you might need to change, then I really would not expect that you will be able to win her back at all. Changes need to be made and you need to be willing to make them if you want to be able to win back the woman you love.
2) You also need to work on making your ex girlfriend feel sexually attracted to you again.
When relationships start to fizzle out, one of the things that almost always fades is the desire that you feel for one another. I am guessing that your desire for her is still present, but her desire for you is probably what needs to be worked on. When you are able to make your ex girlfriend feel sexually attracted to you, then you are in a really good position to actually be able to work things out.