I hate to start this out with words of gloom, but if your boyfriend has dumped you, there is something you must face. Everyday he might be slipping a little farther away. He could be close to becoming some other woman's man. This is something you must face, but you can't allow it to make you desperate. You have to keep control of your emotions and not show how much you need him.
There are many ways to get your ex back, however showing your desperation is not one of them. Trying to make him jealous by dating one of his friends is not something you should consider doing either. To get your ex boyfriend back, you need a plan of action that will work nearly 100% of the time. A plan that will make your ex the one who is desperate and feel he cannot live without you.
You need to know the way a man thinks and take advantage of it. Get inside his head and make him sorry for the breakup and kick himself all over town for the way he has treated you. You need to make him remember how great it was to hold you in his arms and make him miss you like crazy. You have to get through his stubbornness and make him stop rejecting every attempt you make to talk to him.
The good thing about all of this is, you don't have to do it alone. You might have tried nearly every tactic you or your girlfriends can think of and all of them have failed. In fact it might seem that he has drifted even farther away. If this is happening to you, it should occur to you that you should try something beside telling him you will love him forever and cannot live without him.
What you need to learn is how to use male psychology to push your ex boyfriend's emotional hot buttons. You have to get inside his head and shape his thinking in a way that makes him believe he needs you more than anything else on earth. This all begins with you taking one little action. This action might not be easy, but in time it will bring him running back to you begging for your forgiveness.
When you take this action, your ex boyfriend will be stunned. He won't know what hit him, but he will know he is desperate to get you back. However this is not something magic that will happen overnight. It will take a lot of patience and strength on your part. Nothing worthwhile is ever accomplished without a little sacrifice. So keep this in mind because there can be some long days and nights ahead.
However, once you learn how to use male psychology to push his hot buttons, you can not only get back the man you love, but use the same methods to keep him for good. All of this can happen if you are willing to learn, have patience and the determination. You will look up someday soon and see your ex boyfriend running back to your open arms.